HI Everyone, I hope everyone had a great weekend, I certainly did.
There are a few things I want to talk about in this post.
First, and very important, after rigorous negotiations, countless conversations, and a friendship being born, I can announce that Mariana Cordoba is officially part of my network and it is a BIG honor to have her. Not only because she is beautiful and famous worldwide but she is also from Argentina and actually shares my birthday, right down to the same year.
So in about a week I will be announcing her website officially and providing you with a link, so please be patient.
Switching gears, I want to talk about relationships.
One of most common emails I recieve from guys is how to meet and have a serious relationship with a transsexual woman. Remember that my answer is only from my point of view.
I believe that there are a lot of guys that are not looking for a serious relationship, they only want to fulfill a fantasy and have sex. Make no mistake, being in a true romantic relationship with a transsexual takes strong commitment because your life will be different. You are not in a true relationship if you are embarrassed that she is a transsexual. Are you willing to tell your parents, friends, loved ones? You have to be sincere and honest with yourself if you want this kind of relationship to work.
Be sincere; sometimes guys think they want that relationship but are not being honest with themselves. You have to be very secure about yourself and know that is what you want. You have to be secure about your sexuality and never doubt yourself. Nobody wants to be with someone who is ashamed or not proud of them.
What I am saying it that it is not fair to the girls. There are many girls that are just starting the transition and guys lead them on just to use them sexually. They lie to them, never want to take them out, basically just feed them a line of bull.
So guys, please, be honest with yourself and the girl.
In my case, I like a man that is secure and knows who and what he wants. A guy that is proud to be with me and enjoys showing me off. A guy that wants to spend time with me anywhere, anytime. It is all about being happy and doing what you like.
You want someone that you can plan your life with and have the same goals and projects. Someone you can share with your family and be proud of it.
Now, on the other side of the coin, there are a lot of guys that DO want to share their lives with a transsexual and are secure in knowing that. Guys that do meet all the criteria I mentioned earlier. But, they cannot find that girl and settle down because it’s hard to find a transsexual that is ready to settle down and be in a committed relationship. Girls, you need to be honest and sincere with the guys you meet as well. There are a lot of guys that are just “Tranny Chasers” but there are a lot of guys that truly want to be with a transsexual and treat her like a lady.
I guess what I am trying to say in simple terms is that both sides have to be sincere and honest with each other. If all you want is sex let the other person know that. A lot of people have their hearts broken because people are not honest up front.
And remember that everything that goes around comes around and I am speaking from my own experiences.
Guys, life is short, do whatever it is that makes you happy so long as you are not harming another person physically (it may hurt people you love but loving yourself first is more important).
I hope this helped, I am not a shrink but just an adult transsexual woman with passion. I do what makes me happy and I can honestly say that I am a very happy person and in a good place in my life.
With Love Always,