Hi Guys,
If you have been following my blog you would know that in an earlier post (The Flower Blossoms) I talked about coming to the US to fulfill my dream of becoming a beautiful woman. Then I returned to my country (Argentina if you are new) to see my family and friends for the first time after the transformation.
During that trip to Argentina as a beautiful woman I met a very nice guy named Ivan. This post is about my relationship with him.
When I returned I stayed with my family in my small town of about 12,000 people and people welcomed me with wide open arms. I decided to stay for a year. I started going to a night club and all the guys were going crazy. I would go with my girlfriends. There was a cute boy in the crowd and he approached me and introduced himself. He was tall and handsome. We started talking and started to dance. I was a little tipsy so we started to kiss too. He was aware, like everyone else in my hometown, that I was a transsexual because everybody in this town knows everybody else. Most people knew me as a little boy but most of them thought I was a full blown sex change. Ivan also thought I had gone all the way.
After the nightclub closed he asked if he could walk me home. Guys are very polite in Argentina. His house happened to be about three blocks from mine. When he dropped me off at my front door we got a little frisky and kissed.
The next day I had some family members coming from out of town to see me and the phone rang and Ivan was on the other end. The conversation was fast because I told him I was busy with family and I asked him to call me later. He never did.
So he was on my mind for four or five days and I returned to the nightclub. When I saw him we made eye contact and you could tell we were both excited to see each other. He came straight to me and asked me to dance. While dancing we again got frisky and the girls in the club, including his ex-girlfriend, got very jealous especially knowing that I was a transsexual. But Ivan didn’t give a damn about any of it and that really excited me. It was one of the things I really liked about him, he didn’t care what other people thought or said.
At the end of the night we went to his house and had sex for the first time. It was quite a surprise to him because he didn’t know I had my big surprise downstairs. He was a little bit in shock but he didn’t stop and treated me like a lady.
Now, when I met him he told me he was nineteen years old. After we started a regular relationship I went to his parents house to have dinner. They too welcomed me with open arms and were very nice to me. We had great dinner conversation at which time his parents clued me in that Ivan was really only seventeen. I was in shock because I was in my early twenties and robbing the cradle. He was angry with his mother for telling me because young guys want to be older. In his defense his 18th birthday was only a few months away. He did act mature for his age.
It was an amazing time with him. His mother was so kind and nice to me. His siblings treated me very nice. I always made dinner for them. For his birthday my mom and dad went to his house and we had a barbecue. We traveled together. My relationship with him was so pure and I enjoyed it very much. He was a little young so he didn’t have preconceived notions about transsexuals and he was sort of innocent in nature. He treated me like he really loved me, I really loved him. He was lower middle class and worked hard. The little money he did make was spent taking care of me and I really appreciated those things about him.
I felt so much love, had so much fun, enjoyed being around family and really needed that at the time. That was the reason I extended my trip home to a full year. I still had a lot of things I wanted to do and a lot of ambition. I realized my life was in the US and I needed to get back to work and finish all the projects that I had started. My relationship with him was pure, sincere and loving but distance has a way of undermining a relationship. My family continued to see his family and gradually our relationship faded into strictly a friendship.
I don’t speak much to him today but he was a special man in my life. Like all past boyfriends I stay in contact with him and will always have a place in my heart for him.
I just found this picture with him. It was the only one in my computer most of them were true photographs on print. You can see that his mothers cooking and a good relationship can have an affect on a woman’s figure. I gained a few pounds down in Argentina but, as you know, they are gone today. . .LOL!
I have so much more to say but this is long winded as it is. Ivan, if you ever read this, please understand that I care about you and as I said earlier, you will always have a special place in my heart.
Alright guys, got to run but don’t forget the FREE INTERACTIVE LIVE TRANNY WEBCAM SHOW THIS WEDNESDAY NIGHT with me, Ana Mancini!
XOXO
Ana
P.S. – In days to come, I will talk about beauty tips. How I maintain my weight, my diet and the question so many girls ask of me, silicon issues and where to get it.